It been quite some time I did not take a long break..Going to take a long break from today till next tue. Today I went to meet YL in Clementi for dinner. It been 3 years I had studied in NUS but I never try eating the claypot stall opposite Clementi Interchange. The claypot was quite popular and many people were eating in that coffee shop. Something maybe a bit special about it is that you need to pour the dark sauce yourself. So you can pour to your own likings and taste. Later, we went to Holland V Coffee Bean to drink coffee. Though we had been seeing each other every sunday for church, but we don really have the time to sit down and chat for such a long time. It a day he shared a lot of things to me. I didnt know I can be a 爱情专家。哈哈哈。We also chat about our army days, talk about church stuff. Sometimes we realise what made kkmc(Kampong Kampor Meth Church) so unique is that we don really act super friendly when new visitors come. We don really act as though we know the new visitors so well and talk to them so much. The most the church do is to shake hands with new visitors. It really suit our charcters in the whole group cos we were quite reserved in one way or another. Last sunday, there were a report of FCBC pastor Lawerence Kong. It talked about his life and his family. Being a senior pastor, his daughter got pregnant before married. Well, sometimes I heard people leave the church because of this, I cant think of the reason but to say that their actions means they follow the pastor more than they follow God. Anyway, her daughter got pregnant also not totally the pastor fault as well. If you are a parent, you cant force your kids to believe in your own ways as well. Anyway that report on tv about Lawerence kong is quite touching to me.
We also talked about other churches and ended this paragraph with this verse 1 Philippians 1:15-18
"It is true that some preach Christ out of envy and rivalry, but others out of goodwill. The latter do so in love, knowing that I am put here for the defense of the gospel. The former preach Christ out of selfish ambition, not sincerely, supposing that they can stir up trouble for me while I am in chains. But what does it matter? The important thing is that in every way, whether from false motives or true, Christ is preached. And because of this I rejoice.
Though this verse spoken a lot to churches that might be a bit off-track of Christianity, but I am not angry because of this but angry of the other thing. What is the thing, I shall not write here but sometimes wonder is it not very good for God to give me a over-compassion heart that sometimes I fail to control to be upset or angry over some stuffs??
We also went on and talked about korean movies. I didnt expect YL start to watch korean movies and dramas. It all started cos I am buying Uweekly today and just happened the cover page is Kwan Sang Woo- 权湘宇,天国的阶梯male lead. YL don really like to watch korea dramas but like to watch korea dramas. He also said he like to heard the way koreans talked. There were once he was on the bus and there were koreans talking. He turned off his discman and listen to the way they talked. I too had such a experience. I turned off my MD to hear the koreans talked in a bus before. The way korean talked is like a melody to us. Being a korean fan, I like both the dramas and movies but YL don like korean dramas cos the plot is about the same, but korean movies are really different. The plot is fantastic. He shared to me some interesting plots. One of them is as below:
Movie: Bungie Jumping
There was a man(李炳宪)who is going to army. Then his gf did not come and send him off. The gf met an accident and he dont even know. Many years passed and he got married and became a teacher. He got a strong feeling towards a male student. Sometimes he will touch the male and he don even know why is this so. He realised he had loved the male student. Not long after that, he also realise he could sense the shadows of his ex-gf on the boy later on. Then he divorced with his wife and was expel from the school. Then later the little boy know he is the girl who died when they passed the accident scene. Then they went for bungie jumping which he and his ex-gf went before. The ending ended unexpectedly that u don know the ending will be they both jump the bungie jumping and died. It ended quite beautifully with beautiful words.Something like that bah..Cos I never watch also..
Another interesting korean movie drama plot I want to share is this one:
Movie: 中毒(Addicted)
Ho-jin 和 Dae-jin 兩 兄 弟 交 情 甚 篤 , 而 哥 哥 Ho-jin 和 Eun-soo 的 婚 事 對 整 個 家 庭 來 說 更 是 一 件 喜 事 , 但 這 段 快 樂 卻 只 維 持 了 三 年 。 Ho-jin 因 一 場 交 通 意 外 而 死 去 。 而 同 時 間 , 弟 弟 Dae-jin 卻 在 賽 車 時 遇 上 意 外 , 一 直 昏 迷 。
一 年 後 , Dae-jin 終 於 醒 過 來 了 。 醒 來 的 Dae-jin 判 若 兩 人 , 他 開 始 對 自 己 的 大 嫂 Eun-soo 甚 有 好 感 , 並 且 同 居 。 而 Eun-soo 感 到 Dae-jin 猶 如 被 Ho-jin 的 靈 魂 附 上 。 可 是 周 遭 的 人 看 到 的 只 是 一 段 不 倫 之 戀 …
This movie I got watched before and it was shown in Channel U not long ago. It about 2 brothers and one women. The younger brother(李炳宪)loves the woman but the woman and his elder brother are married. One day, 2 brothers meet an accident together at different places and both in coma. But the younger brother woke up and claimed that he is the big brother though his body is not. He knew a lot of things about the moments shared by his brother wife and his brother. That made the woman and even the audience think his soul had been transfered to his younger brother. However, the twist came towards the last section of the movie when the wife discovered something and realised that the love letters are written by the younger brother cos the elder brother don really know how to write and express his feelings very well. The elder brother will share a lot of things to the younger brother as well. That explained why the younger brother knew everything. Though the wife know it, she decided not to tell the younger brother and keep as a secret and they live together forever since the older brother did not survived in the accident.
After talking so much about korean stuff, we planned to watch a midnight show for korean movie but too bad, there is no timings for that.And we ended our coffee chatting at around 11 plus.